Grouper is an invitation only club, you have to apply to be a part of this new take on a blind date and the best part about it is that you HAVE to bring your wingman along for the ride.

The point of Grouper: To match groups of three girls with three boys, by looking at interests, ages and more. The service matches online information from your Facebook profile with a human matchmaker looking to get you talking to strangers.

I did find the site though, a truly great free dating site called, Passionsearch.com, with lots of people on it and great facilities to hookup with girls. But as soon as I started learning the ropes, I found out there was more to this online dating thing than I thought.

A thing of two about personals:

How we write them, where we post them, how we respond to people who contact us because of them, our online dating personals truly do matter. You can be on a site like Passionsearch, the only dating site I will ever be a member of, one that serves me too well I can’t even really describe it, but still if your online profile sucks, well you must suck! Sure you might get lucky and gets hits, but I am living proof that until I took the time to consider the words I was using, the how’s and why’s of posting and I had a few good ice breakers ready for those first hello emails from girls who read my personal or I knew how to read other personals even, I was just one of the many on passionsearch.

Every site has its tools and a good dating site like passionsearch has many but I needed to take some time in the trenches of figuring out what I wanted my online personal to say, to determine if I wanted to post more than one, constantly update or even what picture I wanted with it.

Online dating is about learning and if you are lucky enough to get on a great online dating site you can learn plenty. But you have to build your net dating acumen from the ground up with the basics and learning about personals is basic.

A dating website is the best place to find potential dates these days.  It’s difficult to find good places to meet people in person.  Bars and clubs really don’t work for most people, and singles events can be kind of stressful and competitive.  People who really want to find great dates should try trusted dating sites like Passionsearch.com or Match.com where the members are other people who are really looking to meet people in person for real life interaction.

One of the fun ways to get to know people online is to hang out in the chat room and enjoy socializing, chatting and joking around with other members.  The socializing is an often overlooked and under-advertised feature of any dating site, but it is a great benefit.  Hanging out chatting with other people who are also looking for dates can be a lot of fun.  The people in the chat rooms are from all over the world, and it’s fun to get to know people from other places.  It makes the chat interesting and fresh all the time, and it also means that there are active members online at all times of day or night, which is really great.  Many people who work alternative schedules find this to be a great way to socialize when they’re awake at times in their area when everyone else is asleep.

Many members that are within driving distance make plans to get together and hang out with each other, which just adds more opportunities for socializing and meeting other singles for friendship and dating, and both can be equally important to single people.  Even if people are just meeting as friends, it can lead to meeting their friends and other people who could end up being potential dates in the future.

Also, it’s an opportunity to get out and have fun without having to worry about having a date, and that’s always a plus for singles searching for other singles.

I know that lots of people have concerns about online dating scams and people not being who they say that are, my advice to you, is just be yourself. If you are true to you and follow what your instincts tell you when forming online relationships you will make the right decisions no matter what.

Passionsearch.com is my dating site of choice, its easy to use and I feel completely safe to be open and reveal enough about myself online in order to meet genuine people.

Being true to yourself online is also all about to being true to the people you are meeting, always be honest and upfront. Let your potential lovers, dates or friends know what you intentions are right away. Do not lead anyone on, this is where you will get yourself into trouble and start pretending to be someone you aren’t. You do you know that is happy and has built a lasting healthy relationship by being someone else? I am sure the answer to my question is no one.

At first I admit it was all about the sex for me when I started to date online, meeting someone that way simply equaled non-monogamous and naughty liaisons to me. I was always upfront with people about this and took pride in the fact that no matter I was always myself and honest. This way of thinking lead to many amazing hook ups and left myself and a few lucky ladies very happy. As the time went on and I continued to log onto Passionsearch.com, the things I was looking for started to change. With such a huge membership population it was nice to know I could now begin my search for a woman to date and maybe even take home to meet mom.

Over time I came to see what dating online is really about for me, it is the ability to search for, find, procure, meet and yes maybe even have sex with a woman while retaining all of me during the entire process. If I want to fall in love along the way I can, If I want to date more than one person at a time? I can do that too. It’s all up to me and and as long as I continue to be myself and give off those honest vibes I will find myself in the situations I want to be in and enjoying every minute of it. I am not trying to fit into a mold of any kind or convince someone I am the one they want to be with and vice versa. I refuse to compromise my very soul in this process, I am committed to working towards getting what I want and staying true to who I am the whole time.

I think we could all use a little more passion in our dating, and sites such as Passionsearch.com can give you that little thrill. If you want a little kinky, nasty spice to fulfill your morning, there’s nothing wrong with brewing-up a little online dating on this site instead of that cup of Joe you’re so use too. Heck, why not just have both of them?

Am I right? *wink, wink*

There are so many people that are trying to find one another out there, and just as many are burned out on not getting their needs met, I know I certainly felt this way until I got my priorities in check in order to be successful on this site.  When you become a member of a site like Passionsearch you can find exactly what you’re looking for to float your boat, and for free!  You don’t have to worry about walking down that long hall of rejection or shame; there are simply too many people here that your opportunities expand exponentially in ways you can never imagine!

Instead of pouring over some boring personals I get to check-out many different types of profile and adult personals here for the one thing we all know what we want here, a little passion in our dating. I firmly believe that there is someone out here for everyone and whatever your passion, I also believe you can pretty much find it on a site like this. There are too many of us stuck in the box of what we think dating should be or what our friends and family tell us and even what some other dating sites advertise. Here on Passionsearch, dating is about letting your passion run free and seeing what comes of it.

Adult websites can be joined for any number of reasons. While some people sign-up for hopes of meeting someone who might be interested in hanging-out, maybe having some fun with, occasionally even some sex, people like me join hoping to meet someone who is just like them, and who might be interested in having sex sooner, more so than later. Sex makes the world go round but some of us human beings have extreme sexual appetites and are more open and susceptible to our desires than others. For those of us who have released our inhibitions, who are looking for an easy hook up in the very best sense of the term, Passionsearch.com is the place to be.

It is an appealing site for any number of reasons really, the least of which is that it is totally free, which is a given plus…God knows there are too many sites out here where you are required to pay a fee just to meet someone, I am not for that at all. Why would I ever want to pay for the free dating I do, sounds like a contradiction in terms to me, or worse yet, since most of my time spent here is looking for cock, it makes me feel like I am paying for cock if the site is one I have to pay to join!

I’ve also found Passionsearch to be a fun place to just chat with others of the opposite sex even if I never meet them.

For those of us who have unquenchable sexual desires, who want free dating in our lives fulfilling this need on a site built for the express purpose of the casual hookup is really all we can ask for on the web. I can, have and will again fuck someone off of passionsearch with no fear or issue like they owed me or I them; in most cases I never se the guy again after that first and only time fucking him. There is no obligation to the people or even the site here seeing as you don’t attach yourself to paying anything to be here.

Dan, 55

Thanks, Passionsearch!

I have lots of friends on passionsearch and I date lots of these friends. In fact, as far as I’m concerned as we are all on here, we all have the potential to be friends as well as date, and certainly the potential for both. On passionsearch friends dating is just the law of the land.

I know in real life, far from a good free dating site where the community feels as comfortable as they do here on passionsearch, friends dating is a big no-no to some, a huge drama to others and causes as much strife as it does good romances for still others. But that’s because friends let it get crazy. That’s because other friends prompt the couple who meet as friends with so much worry over losing a friendship the second sex gets involved and everybody can regale you with a war story of how one time they dated their best friend and while it was a whirlwind fuck-fest what happened in the end is that the overall friendship was lost.

To all that I say wa, wa, wa…get up on a site like passionsearch, become part of a million-strong population and start friends dating.

Let’s face it, things could do worse than friends dating. You could meet some guy or girl online or off and spend some wasted dates trying to get to like them or they you and never really get to much more than having a warm body to share a cup of coffee with. Or you can find a fuck-buddy-a perfectly respectable pursuit on a site like passionsearch-and enjoy a few rounds of sex. But friends dating you get the best of all worlds really. You get the romance, courting and possible bumping-uglies and you get to hang with someone you actually like, someone who is as much your friend as anything else.
And here on passionsearch friends dating works best of all because everyone here is open to the possibility of finding passion with whomever….even if that happens to be a friend.

This was basically my dilemma and why I got on Passionsearch.com

I figured to be dating these days one has to be online, pure and simple. Like everybody else I see those ads on T.V. for sites, hear my friends talk plenty about how they do what they do online, whatever it is they’ll admit to that they do.  And just coming back to the scene, having a family no less, trying to negotiate how, where and even why I might fit in I knew I wouldn’t feel comfortable on a purely hookup site as much as I wouldn’t want to become a member of a place I had to pay for to join and look for my soul mate. I fell someplace in between with my needs for dating, and while not cheap by any means-I am fully ready to spend money on a lady for a nice dinner or a movie-I didn’t really want to start spending money to become a full fledged member of some dating site.

So I picked passionsearch as much for the fact that it is a free dating site as that the population here seems to be neither looking for one thing or another exclusively, which suits me just fine.

I need to ease into this whole thing being as unseasoned yet slightly older, maybe jaded, certainly embroiled in the daily activities of work and family as I am. I desperately do want to get to dating again but beyond that I have no idea exactly what kind of dating it is that I want to do or how exactly I am going to fit it all in.

Passionsearch gives me hope I can fit it all in.

Let’s face it; we create personals as much to share nice things about ourselves as we do for hoping to narrow down the prospects of the people contacting us. We might not admit to this, but I know I am not alone in how I view what I do online with my personal add on Passionsearch.com.

As a purely selfish dating exercise, I think more about how people will react to my personal profile more than I think about how well the other members have written theirs. For me it has always been more fun to ruminate over what I am going to write and how I am going to write it when first signing up to an online dating site. This might have something to do with the fact that I am on a site called passionsearch and I know more often than not the population here is pretty much into the lovey dovey side of dating. I think  it’s important to consider what I am saying in my profile in order to narrow the focus for whomever finds me and is reading about me.

I like to think the attention I give to my dating profile is a community service really. God knows if every single person took the time and care to outfit their personals as precisely as I do, there might not ever be any missed connections between daters, there’d be more successful dating sites like passionsearch and we’d all be making a lot more connections a lot quicker. The problem is we are so busy searching for dates and culling those personals that we forget to make the best impression we can.

I am always ready with a great profile ready for any interesting prospects.