In my dating experience I have seen only a few possibilities to friends dating. Luckily I have turned to passionsearch now for all my dating needs and I have found friends as well as romantic interests on the site, but back in the day I managed quite a few friends dating scenarios and the results were pretty much of three eventualities.
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1.) Loose the friendship to the sex ending. Not so very bad really when I think back on what I gained, but losing a friendship is never really great, especially when I knew that the sex, while good, would never last anyway. Again I don’t see this problem these days on passionsearch because everyone online-at least the people I’ve met-knows exactly what they are after.
2.) Loose the sex to only the friendship ending. This served the girl and I in question usually better than just having the sex and not the friendship as we started out as friends in the first place. Though I’m not so sure I liked how easy the choice was made sometimes, a man likes to think his is a dick a woman can’t live without, still maintaining a friendship when cooler heads prevail is really great.
3.) Losing both the friendship and the sex. A terrible set of circumstances but one I experienced way too often. The problem here usually is when one of the people want more than just the sex or the friendship because of the sex that came from the friends dating. I hate to admit how this ending is the one that happens more often than not.
I don’t see any of these three friends dating endings on passionsearch because everyone online-at least the people I’ve met-know exactly what they are after, if there is sex the dating usually begins there, if you are friends with someone on the site you either keep it being so or traipse very carefully into romance; no one comes on to a site like passionsearch not having weathered a few friends dating scars.