The way I look at it, if I am online I might as well be on. I know that sounds simple but you know as well as I the amount of single people who come online, hit a dating site or two but don’t really try, that don’t even meet the whole process half way.
I figured if I was going to get on I was going to give it my all.
First step was finding the right site and I did with passionsearch. A free portal with all these members, the chatting, profiles, forums, it works for me perfectly. Then I knew I had to get up on here in some way. I couldn’t just log-on and stagnate, have a look around and not try and get some attention someway.
So I took to personals, for me that works best. A quick dating add. Something I can get in and out of, maybe leave a few different ones, just hit it and be on my way.
So then I started really getting into writing personals, convinced a few friends to get up on passionsearch as well then helped them pen and post their personals. Now I feel I am not only getting on a site and being on when I am on but I am really contributing.
I know my friends and I are not the only people on passionsearch. I am fully aware that my personal ad can be read just as much as anyone elses’ and that it might not get read at all. But my way of contributing, my way of doing my part so passionsearch can continue to do it’s part as the very best dating site is to keep on here contributing in this particular way.
That’s the thing with dating sites, they work only as well as the people on them work them. They are simply tools after all and if someone isn’t wielding the tool correctly, how well does it ever really work, right?