Free dating serves us all. It is the backbone of a site like passionsearch as much as the reason why most people log on to Faceboodk…though everyone claims they are part of the overall social purpose of that website! And for all the regular everyday people who enjoy free dating-probably as many as enjoy being in a committed relationship-free dating is also as popular among S&M devotees, and maybe even more so then in the straight world.
Kinksters are very much like you and me, they as much search on fetlife for one another as they do come on free dating sites like a passionsearch to look through the population there. They can be monogamous couples as much as they might be poly people who like to jump from bed to bed. Sometimes the person into S&M is only ever playing with partners they meet in free dating, while they maintain a regular committed relationship at home, sometimes even a marriage, and sometimes the guy or girl who likes to whip or be whipped only ever wants to play with strangers.
What we have to understand is that kinky people are very much like us all, they take to free dating and it serves them well with variety and freedom as it does the security of having a regular play partner who may or may not be one’s spouse.
As passionsearch provides variety for kinksters and straights alike so does S&M play see a wide variety of ways to play…and date.
It’s not that the fetish guy or kinky girl is any more wanton than anybody else and therefore would naturally gravitate to the freedoms of free dating, it’s just that more then most they want to be able to chose from many people who they can play with or at the very least people they can build a comfortable community around.
Free dating might open the door for those possibilities for the S&M player.